I don't believe in "magic" or "destiny" - that's not what I'm referring to here. I'm also not talking about knowing you're "great" for another person. I'm talk

I don't believe in "magic" or "destiny" - that's not what I'm referring to here. I'm also not talking about knowing you're "great" for another person. I'm talking about knowing you're _committed_ to another person. When you know you're _committed_ to another person you don't have to wonder if French lessons should go, or the startup should go, or the girl should go. In theory I could know that I'm great for 314 different people, but that's a lot different than knowing that I'm committed to one. This isn't fantasy and it's extremely representative of what goes into making a working relationship.