It's never so cut-and-dried as 'her or the startup' or 'being rich or being with her'. Talk to her, find out what she needs emotionally. Maybe its a couple ho

It's never so cut-and-dried as 'her or the startup' or 'being rich or being with her'. Talk to her, find out what she needs emotionally. Maybe its a couple hours a few times a week. Maybe it's a weekly date-night and one weekend a month. If you're both reasonable people who want a future together, I suspect the startup and the relationship aren't mutually exclusive. If they are, I strongly suspect one of you wanted out of the relationship anyway and the startup is just a convenient scapegoat.