I was in a similar situations sans French lessons. My girlfriend wanted more than I was able to give. Eventually I decided to break things off, since she wasn

I was in a similar situations sans French lessons. My girlfriend wanted more than I was able to give. Eventually I decided to break things off, since she wasn't happy and we had a different life paths--it seemed the respectful thing to do. I'll give you some straight forward practical advice about this situation. If you love her--be prepared for one hell of an emotional roller coaster a month or two after the breakup. You'll be able to ignore it for some time and then a whole other range of emotions will hit you. It turns out this is a normal way to process a loss, it's called grieving. http://www.womens-homepage.com/how-to-get-over-break-up-stages.html http://www.womens-homepage.com/how-to-get-over-break-up-stag... That said, if she is demanding but not too demanding (you'll know the line) and you think there is a chance for the two of you without the startup--then maybe it's worth trying to make it work with the startup. Any gains made by dumping the girl will quickly be lost to the grieving process. Really though--asking her to put up with you while you're doing the startup is asking a lot. Appreciate what she has put up with so far, let her know you appreciate it, and thank her for being a "partner" in the process. Good luck.