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The girlfriend will be gone in a few years anyways. The sad part is, chances are the startup will be gone too. So... think about what do you wish you had been d
by radu_floricica 17y ago
The girlfriend will be gone in a few years anyways. The sad part is, chances are the startup will be gone too. So... think about what do you wish you had been doing a few years from now.
Myself, I've gone with the work. I never regretted it, but then I knew she wasn't the girl for me. What I remember most powerfully was how unpleasant was the feeling that she made me choose. Maybe i'm a romantic guy, but I believe a the right girl would pack you a healthy lunch and encourage you, not make you feel guilty you do what you love.
- autarch 17y agoI think you're confusing allowing self-destructive trampling with romance. Anyone who's such a doormat that they'll encourage you regardless of the cost to them is not capable of true romance. Your desire for unconditional support is pure selfishness, and not conducive to a great relationship.
- Quiark 17y agoYour and radu's comments are exactly opposite, but none of them is quite right - you need to take the middle road.