There is no "vs". Think '+', it's not easy, but who ever said it would be? Try to get her involved. Startup is as personal as it gets to life aspirations and s

There is no "vs". Think '+', it's not easy, but who ever said it would be? Try to get her involved. Startup is as personal as it gets to life aspirations and she should see it. If not, you might not be for each other. You shouldn't ever make such choices. btw. I am in absolutely same situation, and I got her involved as much as possible. Don't ever assume she will be as interested in the startup as you are, but give a lot of praise and credit.