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do you see yourself marrying her? if yes, this question might have some merit. If no, enjoy the ride until she leaves you. personally I side with finishing the

by vaksel 17y ago

do you see yourself marrying her? if yes, this question might have some merit. If no, enjoy the ride until she leaves you. personally I side with finishing the startup. If it was a wife, sure might have been a valid question, since her leaving you = you getting screwed financially or having some problems with custody of kids etc. But a girlfriend? If this one leaves, you'll find someone better. At least this way you won't waste your time with someone who doesn't support your ambitions. There is plenty of fish in the sea, you can always find someone better. Don't let the "she is my soulmate" confuse you. Its just your biology following it's programming in order to have you marry her and pop out some rugrats.

jaf656s 17y ago
>If no, enjoy the ride until she leaves you. No. If you are the one who isn't willing to compromise, then you should do the honorable thing and tell her that it isn't working for you. If not, then you are just wasting her time and that is very disrespectful and cowardly. She clearly wants to make it work since she actually told you what her problem is. If she didn't care, she would have dumped you already.
- yummyfajitas 17y ago
  She clearly wants to make it work since she actually told you what her problem is. Don't fall into the trap of believing she means what she says. She could mean plenty of other things. For example: 1.) "I want to leave you, but I have no good excuse. Let me find one." Evidence for this: she is less affectionate when you are available. 2.) "I am unsuccessful, and your hard work reminds me of this fact." Evidence: she gets angry at unrelated things when you have work-related success. (This is truly a disaster. If this is the case, get out now.) In either of these cases, it's best to dump her immediately.
Jem 17y ago
Where I come from, if you treat your girlfriends like disposable items, you're never going to HAVE a wife.

by vaksel 17y ago

jaf656s 17y ago

>If no, enjoy the ride until she leaves you. No. If you are the one who isn't willing to compromise, then you should do the honorable thing and tell her that it isn't working for you. If not, then you are just wasting her time and that is very disrespectful and cowardly. She clearly wants to make it work since she actually told you what her problem is. If she didn't care, she would have dumped you already.

yummyfajitas 17y ago
She clearly wants to make it work since she actually told you what her problem is. Don't fall into the trap of believing she means what she says. She could mean plenty of other things. For example: 1.) "I want to leave you, but I have no good excuse. Let me find one." Evidence for this: she is less affectionate when you are available. 2.) "I am unsuccessful, and your hard work reminds me of this fact." Evidence: she gets angry at unrelated things when you have work-related success. (This is truly a disaster. If this is the case, get out now.) In either of these cases, it's best to dump her immediately.

Jem 17y ago

Where I come from, if you treat your girlfriends like disposable items, you're never going to HAVE a wife.