(I normally avoid discussions like this on HN.) >Lena Chen was the 120-mph speeder who ended up in a crash. If someone is speeding 120mph and crashes, we tend

(I normally avoid discussions like this on HN.) >Lena Chen was the 120-mph speeder who ended up in a crash. If someone is speeding 120mph and crashes, we tend to generally accept its their fault. So the analogy implies the abuse was the victim's fault; if this wasn't intended, a different analogy might be better.