NO. It depends. Let's reduce your argument to the absurd. If I make it a goal of mine that <foo> happens by next week, and I do <bar> in the meantime, and in fa

NO. It depends. Let's reduce your argument to the absurd. If I make it a goal of mine that <foo> happens by next week, and I do <bar> in the meantime, and in fact <foo> happens, whether or not <foo> is my fault depends on what <bar> I did. If <bar> = nothing, then obviously <foo> was not my fault. Facebook has designed a killer product that makes it really easy to use for social interaction. But Facebook is not forcing you to use it, Facebook is not forcing your friends to use it, Facebook is not forcing social peer pressure on you, and if in fact someone's friends are wholesale excluding that person because they're not on Facebook, Facebook is not responsible for the fact that someone has shitty friends that are too lazy to include that person.