>Many women, at least by my anecdotal experience, see sex as something that they give up, and are expected to, after certain checkpoints in a dating relationshi

>Many women, at least by my anecdotal experience, see sex as something that they give up, and are expected to, after certain checkpoints in a dating relationship. This is absolutely absurd and I don't know what kind of women you are hanging out with. I've had frank honest women to women discussions about sex and relationships and this sentiment has never come up. EVER. >I mention Manhattan for a reason: it's got an unbalanced gender ratio and the highest percentage of single men in the country This is absolutely false. http://www.theatlanticcities.com/neighborhoods/2013/02/neighborhoods-most-single-ladies-and-men/4659/ http://www.theatlanticcities.com/neighborhoods/2013/02/neigh... http://nycedc.tumblr.com/post/16175652438/ratio-of-single-men-to-single-women-in-nyc-new http://nycedc.tumblr.com/post/16175652438/ratio-of-single-me... http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/blogs/smitten/2012/10/single-women-pay-attention-the.html http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/blogs/smitten/2012/10/s... >The men were upset they weren't having sex. The women date, and have sex if they want, but are somewhat resentful about it because they'd rather settle down. The survey I presented above does not support this. Here's a better writeup http://abcnews.go.com/Health/survey-shows-single-men-commit-women/story?id=12831296 http://abcnews.go.com/Health/survey-shows-single-men-commit-... and here's another: http://magicbaltimore.com/3386661/more-black-men-want-to-settle-down-than-black-women/ http://magicbaltimore.com/3386661/more-black-men-want-to-set... Nearly 43 percent of single black men said they’re looking for a long-term partner that can eventually lead to marriage. That’s according to a new poll of nearly 1,100 African-Americans out today from NPR, the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation and the Harvard School of Public Health. The survey asked questions about a wide range of topics, including communities, finance and dating. Respondents between 18 and 49 years old who were divorced, widowed or never married were asked whether they were currently seeking a long-term romantic commitment. Roughly half of the men said yes; just a quarter of the women said the same.