I'm not sure if your reply was directed at me, but I specifically used the term "alright" because it is barely and subjectively positive. I share many of these

I'm not sure if your reply was directed at me, but I specifically used the term "alright" because it is barely and subjectively positive. I share many of these worries, but also realize that these things tend to have a momentum of their own. We can do what we can with our own offspring, but sometimes it is swimming against the tide.