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This is a terrible comment and I want to explain why. It uses hyperbolic language in an aggressive manner far out of proportion to content of the comment it is

by jgon 13y ago

This is a terrible comment and I want to explain why. It uses hyperbolic language in an aggressive manner far out of proportion to content of the comment it is replying to. Youtube comments are generally terrible. Stormfront comments are terrible. 4Chan comments can be terrible. This comment had content directly related to article it was replying to, talking about the utility this technology can provide, and also that the main thrust of the article and the video it contains seems to be someone else's value judgement on what other people should enjoy. So sure, for the .1% of the time that a comment on this site is actually derailing or contains just blatant flamebait, trolling, attacks, etc it probably feels pretty good to call it out as terrible. But for the other 99.9% of the time? Have some perspective, grapple with the content of the comment, and do so in a non-aggressive manner entirely in proportion to what you are replying to. Don't go for the over the top hyperbole, no matter how much immediate gratification it gives you.

ryguytilidie 13y ago
But he got to insult a stranger on the internet. How else is someone supposed to build their self esteem?? :(
- DanielBMarkham 13y ago
  Good grief. Just to be clear, no disrespect to the commenter was intended or made. The comment itself was bad, because it took a wonderful personal story and used it to derail the attempt by the larger group to analyze the topic. Good people can make bad comments. I do it all the time. Most of the time I try to self-identify such comments by prefixing them with "sidebar" "meta" or another tag.
  - ryguytilidie 13y ago
    Yep, it is not disrespectful in any way to call someone's point stupid and use your own incorrect projections as a way of doing so. Maybe the next time you think "I'm going to make a helpful comment on the internet" just go sit in the corner and don't bother the people who are actually having a useful adult discussion that involves facts versus baseless, passive aggressive projected insults. I genuinely feel like you would have contributed more to society by just sleeping in today...
  - kaybe 13y ago
    Maybe 'bad' is not the best description for getting your point across in this case. I feel that the two of you understand differently what you tried to say.. 'bad' is quite emotionally charged for some (for someone it's directed at) and can distract from the discussion for this reason, and I think there are adjectives that do a similar enough job without this while still explaining what happens here from your point of view.

by jgon 13y ago

ryguytilidie 13y ago

But he got to insult a stranger on the internet. How else is someone supposed to build their self esteem?? :(

DanielBMarkham 13y ago
Good grief. Just to be clear, no disrespect to the commenter was intended or made. The comment itself was bad, because it took a wonderful personal story and used it to derail the attempt by the larger group to analyze the topic. Good people can make bad comments. I do it all the time. Most of the time I try to self-identify such comments by prefixing them with "sidebar" "meta" or another tag.
- ryguytilidie 13y ago
  Yep, it is not disrespectful in any way to call someone's point stupid and use your own incorrect projections as a way of doing so. Maybe the next time you think "I'm going to make a helpful comment on the internet" just go sit in the corner and don't bother the people who are actually having a useful adult discussion that involves facts versus baseless, passive aggressive projected insults. I genuinely feel like you would have contributed more to society by just sleeping in today...
- kaybe 13y ago
  Maybe 'bad' is not the best description for getting your point across in this case. I feel that the two of you understand differently what you tried to say.. 'bad' is quite emotionally charged for some (for someone it's directed at) and can distract from the discussion for this reason, and I think there are adjectives that do a similar enough job without this while still explaining what happens here from your point of view.