You are a husband, and a father. To me, that is never failure, no matter what happens. Keep it together for your family. Your kids and wife need you right now.

You are a husband, and a father. To me, that is never failure, no matter what happens. Keep it together for your family. Your kids and wife need you right now. You are the pillar of the house and if you stand tall your strength will make the rest of your family emotionally better off. So you may lose the house. Happens to a lot of people. Whatever money you have right now or can get, keep it. Stop paying any of your bills, except the necessities. Who knows how many weeks, months it will be until you are kicked out. Stay in your house until you are forced to leave. When you do have to leave, go get a rental. Go find your self whatever jobs you can get to get some income coming in. This could be delivering pizza, snow romoval, mowing lawns, etc.. While your doing this, find another software job. None of this is easy but see this as another start up. This time its literally to start you back up again. Remember, you are in the States, no matter what happens, your wife and kids will never go hungry. You will provide for them no matter what.