You dont lose until you give up. Find a good public school district near a bus line and get into the cheapest apartment you can find before the house stuff hit

You dont lose until you give up. Find a good public school district near a bus line and get into the cheapest apartment you can find before the house stuff hits your credit history. Get the highest paying job you can get that is closest to home- I hope its a tech job but if its a service job so be it. No cable, no smartphone, 1 car with payment < $200. Exercise- not by paying a gym membership- by walking with your kids or doing pushups in the living room. At night, work on plans to reinvent yourself. Every other waking moment of the day, concentrate on your kids. Good luck.