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To understand that how much this is a violation and inappropriate, it's helpful to imagine the same scenario happening but the other party is someone you are da
by droithomme 13y ago
To understand that how much this is a violation and inappropriate, it's helpful to imagine the same scenario happening but the other party is someone you are dating. Someone you are dating is more appropriate to have access with one's personal social networking accounts than an employer, so if it seems a problem with the friend, it should be considered even more a problem with the employer.
Consider the person you are dating saying to you, "We're going to go on your social network accounts so you can post to everyone how much you love me and how much you want all your friends to like me." What would be the reaction to such a demand? Does the demand seem normal and reasonable?
Consider the person you are dating saying to you, "I need you to promise me that, no matter what happens in the future, you will never say anything bad about me to any of your friends or family on social media. I also need you to sign this contract agreeing to damages if you ever say anything bad about me." What would be the reaction to such a demand? Does the demand seem normal and reasonable?
I suggest that should these scenarios take place with a trusted friend, it would not only damage the trust, it has a significant likelihood of being an inappropriate enough red flag to be a deal-breaker that ends the relationship, and casts the other party as crazy, desperate, abusive and/or unhinged.
- corin_ 13y agoI'd also be pretty upset if the person I was dating told me I had to spend 9-5 with them 5 days a week.. there's quite a few differences, actually.