Sure. The problem is that I'm getting _requests_ from people I don't know based on _information_ I don't have, and I don't like that _they_ have information abo

Sure. The problem is that I'm getting _requests_ from people I don't know based on _information_ I don't have, and I don't like that _they_ have information about myself that I don't have. And since _they_ have the information, then there's absolutely no reason why _I_ can't have the same information at the same time.