My father was murdered about 10 years ago and really the only solace in the situation is that he was pretty sick at the time and would have suffered through the

My father was murdered about 10 years ago and really the only solace in the situation is that he was pretty sick at the time and would have suffered through the rest of his life and he was only 47 at the time. My mom has repeatedly told me she has no desire to get to an elderly age, like her mother is now. All I know is perspective on this stuff evolves over the years. On another note, the only good thing about people being sick is that you can prepare for their death and thus when they die it can be more of a celebration. The funeral won't be as hard emotionally, and because they were sick, you are comforted by them not suffering any more.