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You're assuming that what we call psychopaths have no empathy and no guilt. I realize that this is the stock definition, but I find it unconvincing and dangerou
by JabavuAdams 13y ago
You're assuming that what we call psychopaths have no empathy and no guilt. I realize that this is the stock definition, but I find it unconvincing and dangerously misleading.
Humans are good at rationalization, and bad at self-reporting. "No guilt" and "no empathy" can be explained by bravado and self-delusion.
Instead, my model goes something like this: there's a spectrum of selfishness. The people we label psychopaths have certain selfish desires that outweigh (for them, sometimes) your human rights. E.g. in an extreme case, an abuser's desire for sexual gratification is more important to them than your right to not be molested.
Dialing it back, consider people who text while driving, or who rush through a yellow light when they could easily stop. In that moment, they aren't seeing the vehicles around them as being occupied by people with all the same rights as themselves. They see vehicles ... nuisances ... obstacles to be routed around. They temporarily lack empathy.
If you go looking for it, there's a lot of sociopathic behaviour on display in daily life, from people who we would never label psychopaths, nor completely lacking empathy.
So, I think that psychopaths are people who are extremely selfish in some specific ways, but that they are not fundamentally "other".
- Houshalter 13y agoThat might be the case. I don't see why it's not possible some people just don't have whatever it is that causes empathy, rather than it being a complete spectrum. Everyone acts sociopathic to strangers. Empathy can't be felt towards an abstract concept. A normal person is capable of feeling empathy. They could get to know the person or even just learn a little about them and imagine them being in their place. A true sociopath wouldn't be able to do that.
- JabavuAdams 13y ago> A true sociopath wouldn't be able to do that. My point is that we don't know that. We're taking that on authority. I'm questioning the basic premise that there are a significant number of people who don't feel any empathy. More than people who congenitally don't perceive pain, say. None of the actions / behaviours I've seen that are attributed to psychopaths require a total absence of empathy. Instead, just extreme selfishness, impulsivity (delay connecting actions to consequences) and a strong ability to rationalize one's own actions post-facto.