We have to assume that our lives are public; and that we have no secrets from those who want to get them the most (i.e. bad actors). We are vulnerable and weak,

We have to assume that our lives are public; and that we have no secrets from those who want to get them the most (i.e. bad actors). We are vulnerable and weak, and had better get used to the idea that we can be f*cked over at will by whosoever takes a fancy to the idea.