The sad part is as an Indian myself I know that the reality is much different. If I started calling Pakistani phones the government will probably start investig

The sad part is as an Indian myself I know that the reality is much different. If I started calling Pakistani phones the government will probably start investigating me for being a suspected terrorist and the old gentleman from Pakistan will never get a visa so swiftly. It's perhaps true the other way around. Even if people want to come closer the state and politics always gets in the way.