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Except that she let him remain homeless and fell in love with another man.

• ludston 13y ago
  Why is that not ok?
  • ivanca 13y ago
    Seriously? "I provided for you and our 8 kids for 15 years but it's pretty much OK if you just want to go to live in Germany to sleep with another dude and leave me here to die alone by hunger just because now I'm hitting rock bottom economically" Is not about love, is about being a fucking decent human being.
    • overgryphon 13y ago
      She moved to Germany to provide housing, health care, and education for their younger children. Divorce came later.
  • xacaxulu 13y ago
    Funny how 'love' can be spelled 'financial security'.
• brazzy 13y ago
  They separated two years after they lost the house. She went to Germany since she had German citizenship (he didn't). She was still taking care of several small children. How exactly do you propose she could have not "let" him remain homeless? The falling in love with another man happened some years later still. I find it apalling how ready people in this comment subtree are to villify a woman based on their ignorant misjudgement of the situation.
  • nhangen 13y ago
    I find it appalling how quickly you turn to words like 'ignorant' and 'vilify' when all I've done is point out the obvious.
  • adrianmsmith 13y ago
    "She went to Germany since she had German citizenship (he didn't)." They were married and had been for a long time (i.e. demonstrably not a "sham marriage"). The husband would have got a permanent residency and work visa in Germany.