I felt this way back during the dot-com bust. I was worried that a single bad choice on my end would lead to my entire bloodline failing, and I eventually had

I felt this way back during the dot-com bust. I was worried that a single bad choice on my end would lead to my entire bloodline failing, and I eventually had panic attacks, health problems, etc. My advice to you is, give yourself some slack. Even if you make a few mistakes, it won't lead to catastrophic failure. Don't worry about work. Save your money dutifully, and go to your kids activities. You'll realize that there will always be opportunity as long as you're making good solid decisions. But you don't need to be working 24x7.