Would you fly in every random person you date? You don't even know you like her? They would have to be way past the dating stage before I would consider flying

Would you fly in every random person you date? You don't even know you like her? They would have to be way past the dating stage before I would consider flying them in even if it's free. Women are known to go on dates with guys they don't like just because hey they get a free meal. So the best way to find out if she actually is interested in you and not the perks is by not giving them out in the beginning. If they're a girlfriend or just a friend with benefits that's different.