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I know some awkward nerdy guys who took up DJing partly so that people in clubs open to casual sex would find them interesting and choose them over others. Does
by nikatwork 13y ago
I know some awkward nerdy guys who took up DJing partly so that people in clubs open to casual sex would find them interesting and choose them over others. Does this make them assholes?
PUA strikes me as a "sales and marketing" technique to advertise yourself as an interesting casual sex partner. There are some asshats who manipulate, but then there are also high-pressure salespeople who manipulate; that doesn't make all sales and marketing unethical.
- trentmb 13y ago> I know some awkward nerdy guys who took up DJing partly so that people in clubs open to casual sex would find them interesting and choose them over others. Does this make them assholes? I dunno if I'd call them assholes, but I do feel sorry for them.
- nikatwork 13y agoWhy do you feel sorry for them?
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- virtuz 13y agoIt's less "advertising for yourself" when you make up bullshit stories and copy "routines" that someone else made to make girls interested in you. It's not cool. Yes, learn social interaction. Yes, learn how the other sex work. Yes, learn how they think. But PUA isn't this: it's gaming women for sex.