There's about 10,000 little painful lessons like this, that you usually learn by making the mistake and cursing repeatedly and vowing never to let it happen aga

There's about 10,000 little painful lessons like this, that you usually learn by making the mistake and cursing repeatedly and vowing never to let it happen again. If you're lucky, you'll be able to pick up a few of the 10,000 painful mistake lessons from reading about them or being taught them. But most of us are rockheaded and insist on making the same mistakes as everyone else until it's happened to us. Better to learn from a close associate or someone else's story when possible, but people aren't so good at that. But life goes on, as it were. Making those mistakes is where a lot of your skill and lessons come from.