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I dont get it. isn't being nice part of the whole "be awesome" thing. I mean why are males being discouraged from being nice and helpful? O.o i mean i understan

I dont get it. isn't being nice part of the whole "be awesome" thing. I mean why are males being discouraged from being nice and helpful? O.o i mean i understand it's extremely wrong to be nice for the sole purpose of getting into someone's pants (and equally wrong for people to take advantage of people for being nice to them), but why discourage being nice as a whole? i thought we all went thru HS and college and learned to recognize people who take advantage of our niceness. Just avoid them, and be nice to everyone else

daemin 13y ago
Do you think in the article that the men in the target agency were just being nice? If that were the case then the fake male profile the security company created would have received as much help, job offers, and other attention as the female, but clearly that was not the case. Women, especially attractive women, can easily distinguish genuine niceness and this get-in-your-pants niceness, and while they will take advantage of it all (it would be foolish and stupid not to), they will not sleep with such people.