I've found, especially in dealing with certain crowds which can often be known as adversarial to put it kindly, a lot of times you avoid conflict by coming acr

I've found, especially in dealing with certain crowds which can often be known as adversarial to put it kindly, a lot of times you avoid conflict by coming across more defensively. Perhaps I've just had to deal with very abrasive people in my day to day work environment, but I phrase things in such a way consciously, aside from any judgement on the argument itself.