I dont understand why everyone feels obligated to let people into their lives who have little to no meaning, and is embarrassed by being honest and removing the

I dont understand why everyone feels obligated to let people into their lives who have little to no meaning, and is embarrassed by being honest and removing them. If you didnt lead the person on, why not say something like "Hey, I really reserve that for personal friends and family." If they seem a put off, invite them over for dinner sometime, you may find that the irl interaction gets you a need friend, and if they dont accept, then you get exactly what you were looking for.