It's simple. Really simple. Just dirt simple. Not all of Mother Nature is so complicated. Did I mention it's simple? Look, guys and gals, there's some quit

It's simple. Really simple. Just dirt simple. Not all of Mother Nature is so complicated. Did I mention it's simple? Look, guys and gals, there's some quite good evidence that the genes of people of descent in Western Europe, Russia, and East Asia are essentially the same as the genes that were successful, say, 10,000 years ago although we could likely push that back to 25,000 years ago. So, think was tribal or village life was like, say, beside a river in Europe 10,000 years ago. Right: The women gathered together and tended to the children, prepared food, and made clothing. The men and the boys old enough did men things, hunting, tool making, building, and fighting. The talents of men for those men things led to more tools, fire, wheels, metals, ..., Windows 7, and these things enormously changed the economy and culture, built by men in ways convenient for men, wildly different from what the women did 10,000 years ago and not so convenient for women. E.g., a single women or a woman in a suburban house with 2-3 kids is in a very different situation, especially for woman, than the women in the tribe/village 10,000 years ago. In simple terms, the women were happier with their lives 10,000 years ago, assuming there were no problems with disease, injury, hygiene, food, child birth, etc. Then, women of 35, sorry: You are too late to the game. Way, Way, Way too late. How much too late? At least 15 years, more like 20 years, and for a really good answer on when to start looking for a husband, let me be clear (assuming good nutrition and rate of maturation) 22 years. Right: Congratulations on your abilities at arithmetic, 10,000 years ago you would have been looking for a husband at age 13 or so and getting married at age 14-16. Did I mention that you are late? There's more from the side of the men: He wants her cute, sweet, pretty, precious, darling, adorable, something to cherish and protect. How to know? Easy: Look at the faces. Hmm? Right. Look at the faces of human females over the years starting at age 1. There they elicit their support from Daddy, uncles, etc. with their faces, facial expressions, and expressions of endearing emotions. That's just how it works. And (simple argument) that's how it worked 10,000 years ago (proof left as an exercise). Then look at the faces over the years. Notice something? Right: At age 10 with some work on hair style and makeup, she can look 17. Or, to be more clear, a young women of 17 still tries to look like an endearing 10. And even more so for a young woman of 13-16. Why? Endearing. She's not trying to be independent, autonomous, self-sufficient, and equal, crashing through glass ceilings, adopting and hiring a nanny, etc. Instead she's trying to be endearing, cute, sweet, meek, darling, adorable, precious, to be cherished, protected, and cared for by her husband as she has babies. But, woman of 35, on endearing, etc., you just don't ring his bell, just don't arouse his protective, caring emotions, are way, Way out of the game. Any pretty girl of 14 can totally blow you off the field of competition. The way of the world. And the result? Right: In the more developed societies the average number of children per woman is significantly under 2.1. E.g., in Finland it's 1.5 which means that in 10 generations 30 Finns will become 1. We're going extinct, literally, quickly. Why? It's not nice to try to fool Mother Nature. The way of the world. That's just how it works and has worked for at least 10,000 years. That's how it worked for all the woman you descended from for nearly all of the last 10,000 years. So, go back to 13, and let's try again, if you can find a way to do that. Today 13? Right: She has to (1) find him, (2) get into boy/girlfriend with him, (3) go steady or some such with him, (4) get a diamond, (5) get married, all by about age 17-19. E.g., Lady Di decided at 15 that she wanted to catch Prince Charles, and she did, married him at age 20. Age 25, 35, etc. to start to be looking for him? You gotta be kidding! Uh, honey, there are sperm banks -- check one out! Wish I'd known this, this clearly, when I was 15. Very much wish that. "Marriage is about offspring, security, and care taking." -- extra credit for knowing the source!