It is old as a dirt - "People see what they want to see" - but reality is always different and it destroys delusions and brings pain. The "solution" also comes

It is old as a dirt - "People see what they want to see" - but reality is always different and it destroys delusions and brings pain. The "solution" also comes from begining of the time - "be selfless", just do one thing at a time (leave anything else, including self-estim aside for this period of time) and do it well, or "just do it".