I think part of the problem is just being honest and complete about what is in the world. As opposed to what should be. This was a problem for me, growing up.

I think part of the problem is just being honest and complete about what is in the world. As opposed to what should be. This was a problem for me, growing up. A lot of what should be, that left me somewhat blind and poorly prepared to deal with what is. Especially when the latter suddenly reared its head and I had to take quick action. Or, not take action and thereby let events roll over me in a less than optimal/desirable fashion. So... write the "manual" -- or description -- of civilization as it is. Warts and all. Trust the readers, en masse if not always individually, to have good intentions moving forward -- the better informed for your efforts.