Yes, if what you ask us to imagine were what happened, then you'd be right. It didn't, however, so you are not. The difficulty of the phrase is not relevant t

Yes, if what you ask us to imagine were what happened, then you'd be right. It didn't, however, so you are not. The difficulty of the phrase is not relevant to how long it might take to learn, because of how cryptography works. That is, a 60 character phrase is much harder to crack than a 58 character phrase. So, the difference between "password" and "this is the password I'm going to use from now until the end of eternity" is cryptographically large, but trivial, memorization wise. So while the difficulty of the phrase to crack just jumped into "not gonna happen" land, the difficulty of the memorization of the phrase moved from instantaneous to 5-10 minutes. If his wife learned a much more cryptographically complicated phrase it still would not have taken her longer to remember, making the specific phrase completely irrelevant. Two months is laughable, "taught it to my gf" is doubly laughable, and "gf (basically a wife)" is off the laughable charts.