You can argue that you don't want software engineering to be a 'safe space' without arguing that it should remain a 'male space'. (People might respond that thi

You can argue that you don't want software engineering to be a 'safe space' without arguing that it should remain a 'male space'. (People might respond that this isn't possible, and that your desire for the acerbic community is outweighed by the desire for women to get into engineering, but that's a different conversation to what you'll get by saying 'I don't think women should be in engineering').