Not at all disrespectful. I didn't know her name, no different than "That dude from MIT" (had it been a guy). Sorry if you dislike the vernacular but not at all

Not at all disrespectful. I didn't know her name, no different than "That dude from MIT" (had it been a guy). Sorry if you dislike the vernacular but not at all disrespectful. Plus I'm almost certain you wouldn't have made that post if I had have said "That dude from MIT." You might have posted the name, but you certainly wouldn't have turned it into a respect thing (not least of all because it isn't actually disrespectful).