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Carried away. Both made a mistake. Both were pissed. He thought he was scoring, she thought she had to do it to fit in. This is far from being an assault, rathe
by tmslnz 13y ago
Carried away. Both made a mistake. Both were pissed. He thought he was scoring, she thought she had to do it to fit in. This is far from being an assault, rather a gross misunderstanding. He lost the job, she feels like he needs to be punished further.
If anyone boy or girl, man or woman had to claim assault anytime someone tries the big step on the other, we'd all be in jail. Did she push him away? No, she "didn't reciprocate". He likely didn't even notice in the drunken excitement and there you go. They both fucked up, but one of the two feel more wronged. Also all the framing in the macho software industry doesn't help, including the employee/employer relation.
Peace. And love. Could it be that simple?