Powerful stuff. Being victimized by others is not a choice. Abiding in a victim identity is a choice. That's why so many rape survivors choose that word - bec

Powerful stuff. Being victimized by others is not a choice. Abiding in a victim identity is a choice. That's why so many rape survivors choose that word - because it is more powerful than victim. Perhaps there are even more powerful names - thriver, for example.