Without wading into this pointless debate, the fact that this part of the story was in the shape of bullet points does not help lift the ambiguity... The bulle

Without wading into this pointless debate, the fact that this part of the story was in the shape of bullet points does not help lift the ambiguity... The bullet points seem to cover several minutes at least, if not a good half hour or longer. At all times she could have said "please stop now". Did she? Perhaps she did. We don't know, though. At one point she expressed surprise that her boss would do this even though he was married. Was that "please stop, you're married!" Or was it "aren't you married?" Could be either, from this report... So the ambiguity is enough to give space to all these pointlessly angry debates. Edit: the following links remove some ambiguity, but not a whole lot: http://theotherzach.com/writes/2013/10/9/events http://theotherzach.com/writes/2013/10/9/events http://blog.matt-darby.com/essays/i-am-the-other-developer http://blog.matt-darby.com/essays/i-am-the-other-developer