Totally agree. This line in the original story was also evidence of the expectation of guardianship/protection: I was a deer in headlights staring into the

Totally agree. This line in the original story was also evidence of the expectation of guardianship/protection: I was a deer in headlights staring into the eyes of the two male bartenders hoping someone would help me. I don't know about you, but I can think of exactly one time in my life when I felt like a deer in headlights and that was in 2002 when I had an M16 in my face and a 9mm pointed at my temple. Long story.