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So she voluntarily lied down on a bar with her and men around her intoxicated by alcohol, hormones amplified and expecting nothing out of the usual to happen? G

So she voluntarily lied down on a bar with her and men around her intoxicated by alcohol, hormones amplified and expecting nothing out of the usual to happen? Get real, please. Of course it is horrible but don't make it look like it was unexpected.

steveklabnik 13y ago
I don't know about you, but I do not want to live in a society where women cannot go to a bar without an expectation of being sexually assaulted. Sounds like a bug.
- pearjuice 13y ago
  In the society I breathe daily, women generally do not get sexually assaulted when they go to a bar (I don't know the statistics). However, I quote: "At some point, it was suggested that I do a body shot. I’ve never done one in my life but at the insistence of many people, attendees and bartenders I decided to lay on the bar." this is an invitation to sexual behavior. "A body shot is a shot of alcohol (such as tequila) that is consumed from a person's body, usually from erogenous zones such as the navel or the breasts."[0] How possibly did she not fathom that this could result in her being approached with a sexual tone? She even voluntarily lifted her shirt ("Someone who was up for anything." [...] "and lifted my shirt as far as I was comfortable") Could it have been the alcohol which intoxicated her body and disabled her anxiety? Made her forget that she was with other men also under influence of the effects of alcohol and she was one of the few if not only woman offering her body to be licked? In which off all the possible outcomes did she expect that she would have get the drink removed from her body and be done with it? Have you guys even thought about this? It is really sad how everything evolved and what kind of person she became due to these actions but please look at the circumstances and how it was her who initiated everything. [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Food_play#Alcohol https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Food_play#Alcohol
  - steveklabnik 13y ago
    Consent to a body shot is consent to a body shot. Let's not even bring up the coercive aspect here. Consent to a body shot is not consent to sex afterward.
    - general_failure 13y ago
      huh ? They didn't have sex. Did you read the article or do you know something we don't.
      - klepra 13y ago
        So, forced kiss and fingering in public is no big deal, huh?
      - chris_wot 13y ago
        Entering your fingers into a woman's vagina is generally considered to be a sexual act. Did you really think he was a gynocologist doing an examination?
  - dwaltrip 13y ago
    Blaming the victim eh? "She totally asked for it! Everyone knows that body shots have to be followed by forced public fingering"... Get a grip man.
- taytus 13y ago
  And body shots? really?
- exit 13y ago
  can you acknowledge that pearjuice opened with "voluntarily lied down on a bar" (as part of agreeing to someone drinking alcohol out of her navel), and not simply "go to a bar"? that's some fox news level intellectual dishonesty
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steveklabnik 13y ago

I don't know about you, but I do not want to live in a society where women cannot go to a bar without an expectation of being sexually assaulted. Sounds like a bug.

pearjuice 13y ago
In the society I breathe daily, women generally do not get sexually assaulted when they go to a bar (I don't know the statistics). However, I quote: "At some point, it was suggested that I do a body shot. I’ve never done one in my life but at the insistence of many people, attendees and bartenders I decided to lay on the bar." this is an invitation to sexual behavior. "A body shot is a shot of alcohol (such as tequila) that is consumed from a person's body, usually from erogenous zones such as the navel or the breasts."[0] How possibly did she not fathom that this could result in her being approached with a sexual tone? She even voluntarily lifted her shirt ("Someone who was up for anything." [...] "and lifted my shirt as far as I was comfortable") Could it have been the alcohol which intoxicated her body and disabled her anxiety? Made her forget that she was with other men also under influence of the effects of alcohol and she was one of the few if not only woman offering her body to be licked? In which off all the possible outcomes did she expect that she would have get the drink removed from her body and be done with it? Have you guys even thought about this? It is really sad how everything evolved and what kind of person she became due to these actions but please look at the circumstances and how it was her who initiated everything. [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Food_play#Alcohol https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Food_play#Alcohol
- steveklabnik 13y ago
  Consent to a body shot is consent to a body shot. Let's not even bring up the coercive aspect here. Consent to a body shot is not consent to sex afterward.
  - general_failure 13y ago
    huh ? They didn't have sex. Did you read the article or do you know something we don't.
    - klepra 13y ago
      So, forced kiss and fingering in public is no big deal, huh?
    - chris_wot 13y ago
      Entering your fingers into a woman's vagina is generally considered to be a sexual act. Did you really think he was a gynocologist doing an examination?
- dwaltrip 13y ago
  Blaming the victim eh? "She totally asked for it! Everyone knows that body shots have to be followed by forced public fingering"... Get a grip man.
taytus 13y ago
And body shots? really?
exit 13y ago
can you acknowledge that pearjuice opened with "voluntarily lied down on a bar" (as part of agreeing to someone drinking alcohol out of her navel), and not simply "go to a bar"? that's some fox news level intellectual dishonesty

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