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I always thought a good online dating site should have you _do_ stuff with somebody else. Like playing a game and chatting at the same time, or talking on a cer

I always thought a good online dating site should have you _do_ stuff with somebody else. Like playing a game and chatting at the same time, or talking on a certain topic - stuff that would make initial interaction easier. I think this is more important then selecting your best partner, and then just giving you his/hers email address.

stcredzero 17y ago
How about structuring it like an MMO, with the ability to get points from successful dates?
dsplittgerber 17y ago
What's your rationale behind your proposal to force users to do stuff? Is it to make initial conversation easier? Well, could be an icebreaker, that's true. Do you think it comes across as sincere intermediation or as some kind of forced thing both parties will rebel against?
- sfamiliar 17y ago
  think about a cocktail party. the host comes in, introduces everybody around. you meet new people, talk about stuff. generally a good host will tell you a little about the other people you haven't met, and say something like 'they'd be a good person to talk to about X', where x is some topic you know you have in common. most dating sites don't do this -- there are no introductions, no incentive to converse. you get to know/be comfortable/uncomfortable with people through interaction. a guided interaction is exactly what most online dating applications are missing.
- TheSOB88 17y ago
  It's a way to find out what kind of person your 'opponent' is and to get to know them, as well as to have fun, thus creating an emotional bond with them - a reason to 'see' them again. A short, goofy game, akin to a Mario Party or Wario Ware video game, would be perfect for this, I think.
  - eru 17y ago
    Check out http://images.google.com/imagelabeler/ http://images.google.com/imagelabeler/ The creator (or so) once told in an interview that people feel connected when playing this game successfully together.
iloveyouocean 17y ago
Check out http://flowmingle.com http://flowmingle.com We lead a group of local singles through a guided introduction process where we pose a question each day. Everyone answers and can then rate and comment on all the other group members answers. And we also allow you to signup with Facebook Connect.

stcredzero 17y ago

How about structuring it like an MMO, with the ability to get points from successful dates?

dsplittgerber 17y ago

What's your rationale behind your proposal to force users to do stuff? Is it to make initial conversation easier? Well, could be an icebreaker, that's true. Do you think it comes across as sincere intermediation or as some kind of forced thing both parties will rebel against?

sfamiliar 17y ago
think about a cocktail party. the host comes in, introduces everybody around. you meet new people, talk about stuff. generally a good host will tell you a little about the other people you haven't met, and say something like 'they'd be a good person to talk to about X', where x is some topic you know you have in common. most dating sites don't do this -- there are no introductions, no incentive to converse. you get to know/be comfortable/uncomfortable with people through interaction. a guided interaction is exactly what most online dating applications are missing.
TheSOB88 17y ago
It's a way to find out what kind of person your 'opponent' is and to get to know them, as well as to have fun, thus creating an emotional bond with them - a reason to 'see' them again. A short, goofy game, akin to a Mario Party or Wario Ware video game, would be perfect for this, I think.
- eru 17y ago
  Check out http://images.google.com/imagelabeler/ http://images.google.com/imagelabeler/ The creator (or so) once told in an interview that people feel connected when playing this game successfully together.

iloveyouocean 17y ago

Check out http://flowmingle.com http://flowmingle.com We lead a group of local singles through a guided introduction process where we pose a question each day. Everyone answers and can then rate and comment on all the other group members answers. And we also allow you to signup with Facebook Connect.