>The OP could have easily praised her marketing savvy without suggesting she should not be a coder. If someone is training to become a janitor and they have ex

>The OP could have easily praised her marketing savvy without suggesting she should not be a coder. If someone is training to become a janitor and they have excellent marketing skills, it would not be rude to say he/she/it should not be a janitor and should be a marketer instead. You are trying so desperately to be offended by something that doesn't have to be offensive.