So this is kind of exactly what I witnessed in real life -- a friend of mine who uses Django for his stack had essentially a nested O(n^2) query, because of the

So this is kind of exactly what I witnessed in real life -- a friend of mine who uses Django for his stack had essentially a nested O(n^2) query, because of the ease with which the ORM allows you to query things as if they were objects in memory... Needless to say, this was very bad, and we both knew it, but it took some digging to find the right django code to implement it (we knew what we WANTED to do, and could write it out in SQL) This particular friend was using the django testing middleware, and even with the massive amount of queries he was doing to the database, the database was not the biggest slowdown (each query went in quick, came out quick), the marshalling he was doing on the django side was...