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That's awesome :-) My parents had me doing chores so when I moved out, I had those life skills. I'll admit, it wasn't until after I was 25 that I wanted to get
by hosh 13y ago
That's awesome :-)
My parents had me doing chores so when I moved out, I had those life skills. I'll admit, it wasn't until after I was 25 that I wanted to get my shit together to break free; it wasn't until I was 28 until I was trying to strike it on my own. But it wasn't until a few months ago, at age 33, that I truly felt like a mature adult.
By that I mean that, there were no hidden impostor syndrome. Nor were there hidden motives in attempting to accomplish something in order to get parental approval.
Although at 25, I did feel start feeling changes (as a result of a maturing brain), none of what led up to feeling like an adult came as a result of a maturing body, or depending on society to create a path towards adulthood. Part of that is mentoring. A lot of it was inner work. (But you can't make anyone do inner work).