Neat. This is what Wikipedia has to say: "For the groom's coffee, the bride-to-be sometimes uses salt instead of sugar to gauge his character. If the bridegroo

Neat. This is what Wikipedia has to say: "For the groom's coffee, the bride-to-be sometimes uses salt instead of sugar to gauge his character. If the bridegroom drinks his coffee without any sign of displeasure, the bride-to-be assumes that the groom is good-tempered and patient. Indeed, as the groom already comes as the demanding party to the girl's house, in fact it is the boy who is passing an exam and etiquette requires him to receive with all smiles this particular present from the girl, although in some parts of the country this may be considered as a lack of desire on the part of the girl for marriage with that candidate."