Well to start the very first issue is that you seem to be totally enamored with her and the way you describe her it's almost as if you feel she is totally out o

Well to start the very first issue is that you seem to be totally enamored with her and the way you describe her it's almost as if you feel she is totally out of your league as the saying goes. This could be true or it could be totally in your head. If it's totally in your head that's good because they you've found something which you think is really great and that's a good thing. But if she is as desirable you are you making her out to be (and it's not just in your head) given the way you feel about this (and the fact that you've waited so long) you may be entering into a potential relationship that later on you will be sorry for. Because it doesn't sound as if there is balance in the desire by both parties. If there were, my feeling is that you would have come together sooner than later. She would have sent out signals and you would have acted confidently that you wouldn't have been rejected. By the way as an aside the fact that she is into things that you are into, from my experience and observation over the years, is pretty much the least important type thing over the long term. The "support you with working" part is great of course. Note that all of that sometimes changes once kids come along. But it's a good start for sure. What would I do? Take her out but don't shut out any other dating possibilities. By the way looks wear over time. Not saying you should date a dog or anything but the looks don't float a relationship long term. You get used to them just like anything else.