The amount of sites that disallow "special characters" is annoying me, esp when they "encourage" tough passwords... it would also be nice, before sending me a p

The amount of sites that disallow "special characters" is annoying me, esp when they "encourage" tough passwords... it would also be nice, before sending me a password reminder, if you reminded me of your rules of your password policy - that is often enough to trigger me to remember my password!