I think this is an unreasonable judgement, which only reflects the fact that the OP has made different life decisions than you have. Bringing your family stabi

I think this is an unreasonable judgement, which only reflects the fact that the OP has made different life decisions than you have. Bringing your family stability is a noble cause, but OP's children get to experience a breadth of culture (among other benefits), for which they will surely be grateful.