My favourite of lighbulb jokes goes like this: -How many shrinks does it take to change a lightbulb? -One. But the lightbulb must want to be changed. That

My favourite of lighbulb jokes goes like this: -How many shrinks does it take to change a lightbulb? -One. But the lightbulb must want to be changed. That's the problem with most of efforts to imporve the world—people get told, or pushed, or forced to accept the change they do not understand. I doubt anyone argues that the change is needed, but I am not sure that active involvment does much good. I am also not sure what the right path would be. Show by example? Don't "accept at the table" until the are "mature enough to behave"?