And all btilly said was "If [trivial aesthetic concerns cause you to experience hate], I don't want to know you." I think that's an entirely defensible positio

And all btilly said was "If [trivial aesthetic concerns cause you to experience hate], I don't want to know you." I think that's an entirely defensible position. And without knowing btilly, or having myself said this particular thing, I can easily imagine myself saying things like that in person, in some circumstances, and it's a point of personal pride. To reply to some of the other comment threads, without spawning many sub-comments, I note that "I don't want to know you" is not the same sentence as "I think you should be murdered", or something. Experiencing hatred for aesthetics may or may not be a fatal character flaw, but that's completely irrelevant.