Can this all be done at some later point in time? edit: I just feel like there's a deeper, darker, emotional issue that needs to be addressed. My dad feels lik

Can this all be done at some later point in time? edit: I just feel like there's a deeper, darker, emotional issue that needs to be addressed. My dad feels like it's my duty to include him because I've been spoiled all my life. I just see this as unfair. Also, I kind of want to do something on my own for once without having my father hovering above me.