That might explain why people act bizarre toward me when I say that I cannot risk moving now, or that I cannot buy x, or y, or cannot do z, because my life is t

That might explain why people act bizarre toward me when I say that I cannot risk moving now, or that I cannot buy x, or y, or cannot do z, because my life is too instable... I have lots of debts, and the job market for programmers here in Brazil suck (ie: most job offers I had paid less than what I pay in my loans), if my startup crashes and burns, I will crash and burn too, I have no plan B, or C... it is just, it MUST work, otherwise I am screwed. People do not understand that, and think I am nuts.